Larry Hackman

Larry Hackman

A SPACE FOR CHANGE. A WAY FORWARD.

Compassionate care for life’s distressing moments.

Compassionate care for life’s distressing moments.

Compassionate care for life’s distressing moments.

Warm, gracious, and relational therapy for couples, individuals, and families in Gig Harbor, Port Orchard, and across Washington via Telehealth.

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A Relational Approach to Healing

A Relational Approach to Healing

Warmth and connection.

I’m Larry, a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist Associate (LMFTA). I hold a Master’s in Marriage & Family Therapy from Abilene Christian University and an M.Div. from Gordon-Conwell, with ICEEFT Externship training in Emotionally Focused Therapy.

Therapy with me is warm, gracious, and gentle. Rather than checklists or homework, we focus on transformative experiences together in session, rooted in neurobiology, connection, and emotional regulation. There is room to slow down, make sense of what hurts, and find new ways of relating.

For clients who desire it, I offer an integrated Christian perspective. Your beliefs and story are welcome here; I fully respect and welcome clients from all backgrounds.

SUPPORT FOR THE RELATIONSHIPS THAT MATTER

You don’t have to navigate life alone.

You don’t have to navigate life alone.

Couples Counseling (EFCT)

Reconnect with your partner and heal deeper relational patterns through Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy, an approach reported to help about 90% of couples improve their relationship. Individual outcomes vary.

Individual Therapy (EFIT)

Find relief from anxiety, depression, and relational distress. Mindfulness, somatic awareness, and Emotionally Focused Individual Therapy help you understand your emotions and feel more grounded.

Adolescents & Families (EFFT/ABFT)

Attachment-based family therapy for teens ages 13+ with parent involvement, and families navigating conflict or estrangement. Together, we work toward greater safety, understanding, and connection.

EXPLORE THE EVIDENCE

The Science & Research Behind My Approach

The Science & Research Behind My Approach

For those who want to look more closely at the evidence, these resources explore the science and clinical perspectives that inform my work.

Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT & ICEEFT)

Grounded in adult attachment theory and developmental psychology, EFT helps couples and individuals recognize underlying emotional patterns. Studies of EFCT report relationship improvement for about 90% of couples; individual outcomes vary.

Attachment-Based & Family Systems Therapy (ABFT & EFFT)

Research explores how attachment bonds between parents, teens, and family members shape emotional regulation and long-term connection. The linked resource focuses on Attachment-Based Family Therapy (ABFT).

Mindfulness & Somatic Awareness in Therapy

Grounded in neurobiology and clinical research, mindfulness practices can help regulate the nervous system, quiet anxiety, and anchor emotional processing in the present moment.

Integration of Faith & Psychology

Research explores how integrating spirituality and personal faith perspectives into clinical care may support psychological and holistic well-being. Learn more through the APA’s Religion and Spirituality Division. Faith integration is offered only when desired.

Care that fits your life.

Care that fits your life.

In-Person Practice

Wednesdays · Gig Harbor

Compassion Wellness Center

Thursdays · Port Orchard

Kitsap House

Telehealth & Fee Info

$145 / 50-minute session

$145 / 50-minute session

One transparent flat rate for couples, individuals, or families. HIPAA-compliant telehealth is available across Washington.

Out-of-network superbills available. HSA accepted.

A few things you may be wondering.

A few things you may be wondering.

How do I know if we’re a good fit?

This is such an important question! I, too, have been on the receiving end of therapy and have experienced therapists who clicked with me, and some who did not. Without that important sense of connection and a level of comfort, therapy won’t go far, so it’s important to me that you feel like you know me and can walk this journey together. As for knowing me, I hope you find me warm and gentle, with a sense of humor and a listening ear. I have my own losses and struggles and those experiences have shaped my own sense of empathy. As far as the clinical experience, if you’re wanting homework and a list of to-dos, that will not be your experience with me. While I do give practical advice, the research and methods I pull from mean transformative experiences in session that stick with you.

How long does therapy take?

Everybody is different so the answer to this is unique to every individual. It will depend on your goals. Some clients I see have specific short-term goals and only need a few sessions, other clients may need long-term work. A typical EFCT treatment is expected to take 8-20 weeks, but nobody is “typical.” Suffice it to say, my goal is to help you find health and healing as quickly as possible. I do not want clients to feel like they depend on me for their health, rather I seek to help them find and trust the resources already available to them.

Do you accept insurance?

I am an out-of-network provider. Sessions are $145 per 50 minutes, and I can provide a superbill for you to submit to your insurer. Reimbursement depends on your plan. HSA payments are accepted.

Do you work with teens?

Yes. I work with adolescents ages 13 and older with parent involvement. An attachment-based approach helps teens and parents build understanding and work through conflict together.